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The True Meaning of Love in a Generation Obsessed with Relationships

  The True Meaning of Love in a Generation Obsessed with Relationships We live in a generation where it feels like everyone is in a relationship—sometimes with someone they love, and often with someone they don’t. But what’s the point of being with someone if there’s no genuine love at all? Human connection is a basic need. We all want someone to laugh with, to rely on, to share life’s little moments. But that “someone” doesn’t always have to be a romantic partner. Friends can be our companions, our chosen family, the people who stay without conditions or confusion. In many cases, friendships last longer than romantic relationships because they are built on trust, understanding, and pure emotion—not convenience. Today, casual dating, FWB, and “just talking” have been so normalized that many people don’t even know what love actually is anymore. All they know are labels without meaning and connections without depth. Honestly, this shouldn’t be normal. What’s wrong is still wrong, no ...
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The Struggle Between Love and Letting Go

  The Struggle Between Love and Letting Go They say life is a constant act of letting—letting go of people we love, things we cherish, everything that once meant the world to us. And yet, we are told, if it was truly meant for us, it will find its way back. But what’s the point of loving if we simply let go? I’ve always believed that love isn’t about surrendering at the first sign of difficulty.  Love is to keep loving, no matter what, and never letting it go from your soul—until it asks for leave, but even then, it will always remain a part of you. Yes, sometimes letting go is a sign of love. But what if we never try, and it was actually meant to stay? Maybe the universe only wanted us to put in some effort. Letting go after giving your everything is one thing—but letting go before even trying? That’s when we lose the chance to know if it was truly meant to be. Love, in its truest sense, is about balance. It is about holding close what matters to you and only letting go when...
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Fear of Being Abandoned

  Fear of Being Abandoned Even when life looks okay on the surface, one fear never truly leaves—the fear of being abandoned. No matter how close you get, no matter how clearly someone shows that you matter to them, there’s always a quiet thought lingering in the background. What if one day they choose someone else? What if they prioritize someone else over me? Subconsciously, you know it may not happen. They’ve shown up. They’ve stayed. They’ve made you feel important. And yet, somewhere deep inside, a familiar voice whispers—what if it happens again? This time, it feels worse. Because this person means so much more. Even the idea of being left by them is terrifying. So you try to protect yourself the only way you know how—by pulling away, creating distance, or leaving first. Because maybe it won’t hurt as much if you’re the one who walks away. It was never meant to be like this. But past trauma has a way of sneaking into the present, even when the present is bright. Why can’t we j...
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How I Stay Sane When Life Gets Messy

  How I Stay Sane When Life Gets Messy Firstly, what is optimism? Most people call it positive thinking. But for me, it’s more than that. It’s the small spark that keeps you going when life feels heavy, messy, and completely out of control. Optimism is the ability to look at the brighter side even when everything around feels dark. It’s an art—maybe even a talent—and not all of us are born with it. There are phases in life when we’re at our most vulnerable. Nothing seems to go right. Every plan we carefully made starts falling apart. In those moments, even breathing feels heavy. Yet somehow, that one optimistic thought about the situation makes the weight feel a little lighter. For me, optimism has always been a way to escape—to run from phases that were never part of my planned road. Call me delusional if you want, but I call it optimism. I choose to think of all the positive outcomes a situation could lead to. This is how I try to see the silver lining: If I score less on somethi...
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A love letter to the emotionally intense

  The Strength of Sensitivity: A Love Letter to the Emotionally Intense In a world that celebrates detachment, we’ve glorified the phrases like “I don’t care,” “I’m unbothered,” and “I’m a savage.” We’re in a generation that wears emotional numbness like armor, where being “a bad bitch” often means being cold, distant, and unaffected. But I’ve realized something — behind many of those hard shells are hearts that break easily, souls that feel too much, and minds that battle silently with overwhelming emotion. And you know what? That doesn’t make them weak. It makes them human — deeply, courageously human. We rarely talk about those who feel everything deeply. The ones who get emotionally affected, sometimes by the smallest of things. The ones who have breakdowns that nobody sees, or worse, the ones that people laugh at. The ones who are called “too sensitive,” as if it’s a flaw. But I believe — no, I know — that it takes immense strength to be vulnerable in a world that punishes vul...
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"The Truth About Love: Giving Without Limits"

 “ The Truth About Love: Giving Without Limits” You know, sometimes in life, no matter how hard you try… You try to fit in — into situations, into this generation, among people you care for. You try to give them all the love you have — every little piece of it. But somehow, it never feels like enough for them. Not because your love is any less, But because… people, they always want more. And the more you give, the more they crave. It’s like a void inside them — bottomless, limitless. A hunger for love that never really gets satisfied. Sometimes, I wonder — Is all the love I give ever going to come back to me? I don’t give it with expectations, But yes, there’s a small hope deep down — That maybe, just maybe, I’ll feel it coming back the same way. But even if it doesn’t… Even if I never get it back the way I give it… It doesn’t stop me from loving. Because giving love never drains me. It doesn't make me feel empty. In fact, it fills me. "Because love is never mercurial — it’s a...
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